Following Monday's Tim Russert-moderated event, I was reminded of the horrible ways in which people conduct themselves at public performances. In my grandparents' time - even in my parents' time, for that matter - going to the theater or any performance (excluding non-classical music concerts) was, at minimum, a coat-and-tie event, and I would like to think that our generation can keep its dignity and follow suit. So, I offer you these guidelines to consider:
First, show up on time. As a general rule, most venues open their doors a minimum of 30 minutes prior to showtime. That's no mere coincidence - it's for a reason. Arrive no later than 15 minutes prior to curtain. Going to a performance isn't the same as going to a dance or other social event - you have no entrance to make because no one cares who you are, and the show will never wait on you to begin. You're also doing yourself a favor if you show up early, as you'll want to be properly situated. It's distasteful to walk into a performance late because you interrupt the event for all who are watching.
Next, learn how to dress yourself. No matter how much you pay for a performance, it does not pay for you to show up to a televised program or a piece of professional theater in shorts or denim unless you are asked to do so. Your form of dress not only reflects how you feel about yourself, it also reflects how you feel about those who are performing for you.
Finally, turn your cell phone off, or don't bring it all. Regardless of what you think, unless you are the president of the United States, you really aren't that important, and your friends don't always have to know what you're doing. I can still remember how enraged I was when I paid in excess of $100 to watch Toni Braxton in Broadway's Aida, and the cell phone of a woman in a fur coat who was seated directly behind me rang not once, but twice, and she answered it and carried on full-length conversations both times. Why pay that much money to talk on your cell phone? You're nothing more than a nuisance if that's the case.
Following these helpful tips will make you not only a better audience member but also a more respectful person.
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