"Over the course of my first semester at BC, I felt this intense desire to make up for the sheer amount of self-loathing and discrimination that I had...
"Without words, without restrictions on what I should think, with only space to absorb the music and make my thoughts mine—this is, for me, the matchl...
"So what do you do? Who wins the war? Do you give in to the guilt, replacing pleasure with self-discipline? Do you militarize the dinner table, watchi...